Um...I don't have any problem with you. I, most of the time, can understand where you're coming from...mostly because I can sometimes have the same problem. Things can come across to you the wrong way, and so you feel as though an insult is intended and you respond as you see fit.
The only problem I see with that, is that you (and me) can become unnecessarily defensive if not careful. It's best to approach the situation by understanding that no offense is intended, and that there is probably a reason why something was said the way it was said. And even if it came off offensive, there's ways to approach that without becoming prickly and defensive.
As I said before, I don't mean to be the pot calling the kettle black; I have the same problem. But that
is something I noticed about you.
“…Judge not what a man has done, but judge what he could have done if he was a different bloke altogether. For art thou a leper? And a leper can changeth his spots…” --Rudy Wade, Misfits (Series 4, Episode 8)