Ugh, I can already see where this is going. Honestly, I'm not in the mood to argue, or get into some kind of spat.
My point is this, Jester. You have to make clear your intentions. And if you attempted to make things clear, and people still do not get it...humor them. Not everybody thinks the same, and so what may be clear to you may not be so obvious or apparent to others.
That said, I understand your choice now, and I have given you my recommendation, which you can take up with Dryad when she gets back.
Not I'd like to move on to other business, if it's not too much trouble.
“…Judge not what a man has done, but judge what he could have done if he was a different bloke altogether. For art thou a leper? And a leper can changeth his spots…” --Rudy Wade, Misfits (Series 4, Episode 8)