I personally don't care for it. It's shallowly-angsty and unrealistic for any person to aspire to in a romantic relationship (and not for the reason that there's vampires and shapeshifters/werewolves)...
If it doesn't make sense, I don't want to be surrounded by it.
But yeah, I tolerate it too...
“…Judge not what a man has done, but judge what he could have done if he was a different bloke altogether. For art thou a leper? And a leper can changeth his spots…” --Rudy Wade, Misfits (Series 4, Episode 8)