Neither of you are in college yet. You'll learn.
I had a male psychology teacher; light-skinned black; older.
And what I learned from him is that a lot of gender roles and gender psychology comes from subjective experience; they are widely based on opinion, not fact, which is why you can't scientifically PROVE that all men are pigs, or that a woman's place is in the home.
And substituting objectivity with subjective, pseudo-objective quasi-analyses doesn't make any one stereotype more true than another.
So both of you drop it. I'm gonna delete these posts shortly.
“…Judge not what a man has done, but judge what he could have done if he was a different bloke altogether. For art thou a leper? And a leper can changeth his spots…” --Rudy Wade, Misfits (Series 4, Episode 8)